Boundaries / Before You Interact


Last Updated: 07/30/2025

This page is a list of boundaries and important notes for interacting with me, and me interacting with others. I decided to make this after I was made uncomfortable one too many times, and I'd just like to have this list all in one place. I would also like to be 100% clear on what I am and am not comfortable with, and potentially avoid awkward situations/discussions. If you were linked this page, it doesn't mean you're a bad person or this is a personal attack! It's just a resource to be able to easily give to people so they can be aware and informed.

Additionally, my boundaries are not an invitation or a challenge. Failure to respect me, my autonomy, and my privacy will result in a block on all platforms. I take this very seriously. If this page and/or my boundaries angers or upsets you, please take a step back and really evaluate why that is.

When it comes to ALL boundaries, the best policy to follow is "ASK, DON'T ASSUME." If you are confused by ANYTHING or want to ask for clarification, please do not be afraid to reach out!


Why do you even have this page? I don't get it.

I'm autistic, and I communicate very directly. I also handle things differently than most other human beings. I think it's easier for me to have all of my boundaries written down and to be able to communicate them clearly. People may not be aware of how I feel or where I stand on certain things. Think of this page as handing someone a flyer or manual with information, nothing more.

It's also worth noting that some of my boundaries are just a result of something happening, and my response is "I don't feel comfortable with this / I feel uncomfortable when this happens." It is never meant to be rude, I'm just direct. Thank you so much for understanding and being patient with me!

I think your boundaries are bullshit. This is rude. You should be grateful.

I'm glad you got to experience an upbringing and a life without malicious gifting, bullying, or complex types of abuse. However, not all people are that fortunate. I hope you are able to learn to understand the perspectives of others and extend more grace to those less lucky or who are different than you. If this is an issue for you: Block me. It is a very easy solution; you'll never have to see me or my content again.

I accidentally did something listed here, but it was an honest mistake. Do you dislike/hate me?

No way! Especially if we talked it out. I know I handle things weirdly because of my autism, but discomfort =/= hate. I'm always open to talking this out and coming to an understanding. Even if I end up not getting along with someone, I'm not going to start fights or be explosive. Don't worry- I'm an adult that just wants peace and quiet. I think that's the case for many of us, so let's work together to have it!


My Art, Gift/Fan Art Policy, and Interacting with my Artwork

Don't reupload my work, please! (With exceptions)


Do not create fanart/fan content of my VTuber or OCs if you cannot portray them accurately and/or respectfully.

"But I'm learning how to be more inclusive in my art, and I want to practice that with your characters!" That's great. As a plus-size, queer, disabled, trans person of color: If you cannot comfortably draw fat people or dark skintones... please go learn before drawing my OCs. 👍

No AI-generated slop.


My plus-size / fat art is NOT fetish art! Please respect this.


Don't make explicit, sexual, or creepy remarks about my VTuber model or OCs.


NO NSFW / 18+ OR KINK/FETISH ART OF ANY OF MY CHARACTERS WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT PERMISSION.


DO NOT COMMISSION ART OF MY OCS / VTUBER MODEL WITHOUT MY CONSENT.


DO NOT draw my OCs/VTuber with other characters/personas that are not mine without asking me first.


No fanfiction or fan-writing of my VTuber/OCs.


No cosplay of my VTuber model or OCs.


No HeroForge models of my VTuber/OCs. I am not a fan of these, and never have been.


No art of my model/OCs made with flash games, bases, etc. Make art that is yours and not on a template or base.


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